- Week Three
- Day Three
- Please remember to pray and ask for wisdom and understanding.
- AND *uncomfortable cough* here we go…
28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
1 Corinthians 7:1-9
1 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
6 But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.
7 For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.
8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I.
9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.
15 Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well.
16 Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad, and rivers of waters in the streets.
17 Let them be only thine own, and not strangers’ with thee.
18 Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
19 Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.
20 And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?
21 For the ways of man are before the eyes of the LORD, and he pondereth all his goings.
22 His own iniquities shall take the wicked himself, and he shall be holden with the cords of his sins.
23 He shall die without instruction; and in the greatness of his folly he shall go astray.
2 Samuel 11:1-27
1 And it came to pass, after the year was expired, at the time when kings go forth to battle, that David sent Joab, and his servants with him, and all Israel; and they destroyed the children of Ammon, and besieged Rabbah. But David tarried still at Jerusalem.
2 And it came to pass in an eveningtide, that David arose from off his bed, and walked upon the roof of the king’s house: and from the roof he saw a woman washing herself; and the woman was very beautiful to look upon.
3 And David sent and enquired after the woman. And one said, Is not this Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah the Hittite?
4 And David sent messengers, and took her; and she came in unto him, and he lay with her; for she was purified from her uncleanness: and she returned unto her house.
5 And the woman conceived, and sent and told David, and said, I am with child.
6 And David sent to Joab, saying, Send me Uriah the Hittite. And Joab sent Uriah to David.
7 And when Uriah was come unto him, David demanded of him how Joab did, and how the people did, and how the war prospered.
8 And David said to Uriah, Go down to thy house, and wash thy feet. And Uriah departed out of the king’s house, and there followed him a mess of meat from the king.
9 But Uriah slept at the door of the king’s house with all the servants of his lord, and went not down to his house.
10 And when they had told David, saying, Uriah went not down unto his house, David said unto Uriah, Camest thou not from thy journey? why then didst thou not go down unto thine house?
11 And Uriah said unto David, The ark, and Israel, and Judah, abide in tents; and my lord Joab, and the servants of my lord, are encamped in the open fields; shall I then go into mine house, to eat and to drink, and to lie with my wife? as thou livest, and as thy soul liveth, I will not do this thing.
12 And David said to Uriah, Tarry here to day also, and to morrow I will let thee depart. So Uriah abode in Jerusalem that day, and the morrow.
13 And when David had called him, he did eat and drink before him; and he made him drunk: and at even he went out to lie on his bed with the servants of his lord, but went not down to his house.
14 And it came to pass in the morning, that David wrote a letter to Joab, and sent it by the hand of Uriah.
15 And he wrote in the letter, saying, Set ye Uriah in the forefront of the hottest battle, and retire ye from him, that he may be smitten, and die.
16 And it came to pass, when Joab observed the city, that he assigned Uriah unto a place where he knew that valiant men were.
17 And the men of the city went out, and fought with Joab: and there fell some of the people of the servants of David; and Uriah the Hittite died also.
18 Then Joab sent and told David all the things concerning the war;
19 And charged the messenger, saying, When thou hast made an end of telling the matters of the war unto the king,
20 And if so be that the king’s wrath arise, and he say unto thee, Wherefore approached ye so nigh unto the city when ye did fight? knew ye not that they would shoot from the wall?
21 Who smote Abimelech the son of Jerubbesheth? did not a woman cast a piece of a millstone upon him from the wall, that he died in Thebez? why went ye nigh the wall? then say thou, Thy servant Uriah the Hittite is dead also.
22 So the messenger went, and came and shewed David all that Joab had sent him for.
23 And the messenger said unto David, Surely the men prevailed against us, and came out unto us into the field, and we were upon them even unto the entering of the gate.
24 And the shooters shot from off the wall upon thy servants; and some of the king’s servants be dead, and thy servant Uriah the Hittite is dead also.
25 Then David said unto the messenger, Thus shalt thou say unto Joab, Let not this thing displease thee, for the sword devoureth one as well as another: make thy battle more strong against the city, and overthrow it: and encourage thou him.
26 And when the wife of Uriah heard that Uriah her husband was dead, she mourned for her husband.
27 And when the mourning was past, David sent and fetched her to his house, and she became his wife, and bare him a son. But the thing that David had done displeased the LORD.
GUARD HEART AND MIND – CHANNEL DESIRE
God made men and women with strong sexual desires. There is absolutely nothing ungodly about these desires when they are channeled in the right path and exercised within the sanctity of marriage. Focus on what you read in 1 Corinthians and Proverbs.
Biblical passion and love for our mate is a gift given to us by God. When fostered, it will draw us closer to our spouse and to God. How can you foster more of this biblical passion for your husband? Although I don’t have four children running underfoot any longer, there are new demands and stresses in my day. I have to exercise great discipline to stop what “needs” to get done to do what my husband would really really like to have done. I have to make a conscious choice to put aside what I am doing, to get myself ready for him, and to prepare for later in the day. I not only have to prepare outwardly, but I also have to prepare my mind and my heart to settle down and to give myself permission to enjoy him and to enjoy us. What could you do this afternoon to get yourself ready and help move your marriage further down the pathway to intimacy? How might that look in your relationship with the Lord?
Keeping in mind Jesus’ words in Matthew 5, reflect upon the choices that David made (from the 2 Samuel passage). He certainly was not guarding his heart and his mind. Consider the progression of how things spiraled into sin. What can you apply to your own life or to help your children as they grow into teenagers.
David’s first step into adultery was taken when he stopped watching over his heart, when he became “lazy” about walking in the path of righteousness. It is easy to become lazy if we aren’t spending time in the Word. If we are being hearers of the Word and not doers, our hearing will grow dull, and we will not hear the Word any longer. Take time now to pray that the Lord will give you attentiveness to any lazy areas in your relationship with Him or in your relationship with your husband or others.
My Own Thoughts
This is becoming increasingly harder to write out for many reasons. I know this is a tender topic for many women. The reasons for this are as diverse as we are. Let us remember ladies, that we are not perfect either and forgiveness is key and a command of our Lord. Our husbands should not have to earn rights with good behavior… some say there are those times of warranted refusal but for the most part…
Until next time family, have a wonderful evening, cuddle with the hubby and read some scripture together, watch a good movie, and spend some quality time! AND as always I love you all so very much, stay peculiar!
Such a fitting topics all week …I feel grateful but some days I don know if Iam happy about it. Lol
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Always grateful lol
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